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jonesy in ssbu's avatar

excited to debate pig play at the next presidential forums 🫡

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Rebecca Zlochower's avatar

OMG! This! All this! You have described so powerfully my experience and the experience of so many trans femmes.

Being bullied in middle school for not being manly enough? Check.

The same bullies recognizing our femininity and weaponizing it against me? Check. (In my case the bullies also included male teachers)

Fantasizing about being a dominant--but also kind--man's slut? Check.

Those fantasies starting to recede as I embody my true self? Check.

Blanchard and Rowling will go to their graves never getting a fucking clue.

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Jordan Zeigler's avatar

“and yes, I felt Bhadd afterwards” 👏

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Caroline Osella's avatar

Thanks, nice work. People need to know about that discredited line of “it's all fetish and therefore illegit”. When the fuck will we ever get nuanced about this stuff? I'm too old to live through this stuff again lol. Good that younger generation are bringing it to light.

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Kelsey Zazanis's avatar

I don't understand this sentence; "especially since the ‘climax’ of the incestuous gay brothers’ molly trip was a kiss – SNOOZE!"

were we supposed to want more incestuous action from them? as an incest survivor well too steeped in the reality of the violence underpinning incestuous family dynamics, the fact that this was eroticized at all on mainstream television was gross and misleading. yet then again, incest porn is one of the most popular porn genres, so I shouldn't be surprised -- yet seeing people cheering this on, normalizing it, and flippantly itching for more shock value is yuck

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Jillian's avatar

“Delulu king who is not dead yet” historical line. should be remembered in all of the crumpling empires now and to come.

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henri's avatar

I find it telling that nobody ever discusses the alternative (autophallophilia?) because thats also just as real and just as understandable, and even more clearly accepted in transmasc spaces- however it doesn't fit the idea of predatory men in dresses that freaks like blanchard salivate over

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Ezra's avatar

The old contrapoints video about Autogynephelia comes to the same conclusion: everyone fantasizes about having sex with themselves how they are and in their own gender affirming way.

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adair's avatar

ANOTHER HIT. i was so anxious to catch up on wl so i could finally read this LOL

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